Letting It Go

You're hurt. So deeply. You're confused. Scarred so far beyond the surface, you begin to think that you won't ever be able to get over it. Frustrated. Angry. Sad. Simultaneously. Ultimately, it becomes a struggle to get through your day without tears and you keep yourself as busy as you can to keep from thinking about it. Disappointment is natural. Deep disappointment even more so because in life, we tend to get excited about different and new things in our lives. For example, your new job or internship and the like. And then there is that one thing... that oh so familiar excitement that you get from a new relationship. We have high hopes and expectations for these things to work out and we put our all into it only to have it turn into something that what we didn't expect it to be; one big 'ol let down. Complications are born and those little suckers breed more complications which lead to an infuriating whirlwind of emotions. And when the dust settles, you're left with a host of questions, the first being, "wait, what just happened?" That's where the confusion begins, because you may not be able to detect what went wrong. This person has became such a part of your everyday life, it's hard for you to imagine what you used to do before they came into the picture. Here comes the heartbreak....And the heartache. Love is funny. You swear up and down that you don't need it to survive but, when it comes and goes, you realize that it is an intricate part of life. So take a moment. A few moments, even. Break out the Kleenex and the candy bars. Listen to 112's "Cupid", and Mariah's "Always Be My Baby" on repeat. But you've got to get up, dry your tears and brush your shoulders off. The true test of character doesn't come from the way you fall down, but the manner in which you get back up. And for whichever reason the situation did not work out the way you wanted to, you've learned and gained from this experience. You've grown and have become a wiser individual. It's time to let go. Life goes on. And you'll make it.

Are You 'So Ambitious?'

You know what they say, if you don't believe in yourself, who will? So here's the deal; Sometimes you've got to be your biggest cheerleader. In life, not everyone will support your goals, dreams and aspirations. It's a sad but true reality. Even those in your closest circle will be sometimes be your biggest nay-sayers. BUT on a more positive note, and for lack of better words, "forget them". Now, when it comes down to it, It's your dream, so let it live. It's like the poet Langston Hughes said "Hold fast to your dreams/For if dreams die/Life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. The key to it, is being consistent, working hard and being diligent in your pursuit of whatever your dream happens to be. Test your ambition,and put it to work! Because if you "can believe it. then you can conceive it.

The Show Must Go On!

Hey guys!

I know its been a while since my last post. I'm back from my hiatus and you all can expect at least a weekly updates and inspiration. So much has happened since then that I will be sharing with you all, but this specific post is about a lesson that I learned repeatedly over the past few months. I've titled it *Clears Throat* The Show Must Go On!. This simple concept holds a lot of weight when it comes down to what it actually means. Life is going to do what it does best; be hard. It's going to throw curve balls, and present forks in the road like you couldn't imagine. But the true testament to what kind of person you are, is if you keep going! There will be plenty of situations that will attempt to throw you off course. And there will be plenty of PEOPLE that will attempt to do the same thing. Lets be clear; No man, woman are child should be able to stop your show. Why? Because it is yours. Aside from the things that are completely out of your control, no one's actions should dictate the way you feel about your life. Don't let the negative energy affect you. Don't let anyone be a showstopper. THE SHOW MUST GO ON!

Class of 2010: The FINAL Frontier

Please enjoy this tribute to my fellow Graduating Seniors at Howard University and Universities across the world. This is OUR time! **
Ya'll know I had to put my picture proof at the end of the video! :)
Enjoy!

The Power of Love: Read It & Don't Weep

With Valentines Day come and gone, some of my readers have broken hearts, others are full of love and some of ya'll didn't even notice right? ...(or that's what you tell yourself to help you sleep at night). Let's be honest: Love is a powerful part of our everyday lives. We love friends, family, and ultimately long for true love from a "significant other." At Church this past Sunday, the preacher told us that we could not have love and power at the same time. That was interesting to me because I have analyzed my friends relationships, my parents and my own, and come up with an interesting conclusion: No one wants to lose. No one wants to give up power. What does that mean? It is a very basic concept really. For example, if Sue really likes John, and John really doesn't, who do you think has the upper hand? Who loses? Exactly. John has the power to manipulate, to stress, to control. But the power of love is so strong, that it becomes a struggle between Sue's mind, heart and soul and she may be unable to walk away. Now, if John loves her back, that part can be beautiful. Their love can flourish and they can be happy together. Every relationship has their problems, but I believe that when two people love each other and keep God at their forefront, it could very well work out. My personal views are as follows: Lets just say, I'm not an expert in relationships, and honestly, never been in love. But as I grow and mature, it becomes more apparent to me that love does not have to be a game of wins and loses. Society has negatively warped our images of relationships. It takes two mature individuals to come to a conclusion that they have feelings toward each other. You have to be ready spiritually, emotionally and mentally to take on another individual in that capacity into your life. What do you think readers? Are ya'll ready for love?

May 8, 2010: Freedom Song...Or Doom's Day?

The Countdown Continues... Class of 2010 across the WORLD! Are we ready?? We are about to be done! Finito! College was probably THE best 4 (or 5... hey, it happens) years of your life. You've grown and matured as an individual, joined organizations, made friends and connections. And now its bout to be over. Dang, how does that make you feel? For my mighty Bison at Howard University Graduation is.... 11 Weeks, 6 days, 10 hours, 35 minutes and 59..58..57, you get my drift. While some may be singing the 'Freedom Song,' others are call it 'Doom's Day.' Why?? Just think about it... Most of you have been in school EVERY year since you were 4 or 5 years old. That's the past 17 or 18 years of your life! (Go ahead, inhale and exhale.) Exactly...that's how I felt. Since last semester, the goal for many of us has been graduation. Just keep pushing. Just keep grinding. We could see the light at the end of the tunnel, the white tape at the end of a marathon, the Oz at the end of that doggone yellow brick road! But now this "figment of our imagination" is starting to become a tangible reality, the anxiety starts to set in. I can't tell you how many graduating seniors I've spoken to ,that when asked what post-grad plans are, I get a blank stare. I even think I saw a tear in the eye of one person. Its a scary thought. In this economy, (oh boy, I never thought I'd be the one saying this) its hard out here. And who can forget those rack of student loans and debt that we have built in 4 years? The recession is real, and its one UGLY son of a *&%^#!! But I digress. The reality is, some of us really don't know. There are just so many options. "Should I go to grad school?" "Try to find a job?" "What am I good at?" And the question that I know is on every body's mind... "How can I make some money?" How much will your piece of paper be worth in the real world? I find myself at a crossroad sometimes. Thinking long and hard about what I should do next.I have a dream that I definitly plan on following. I find that the worst thing to do, is think too hard and take no action. Then you'll just be stuck. Don't wait for opportunities to pass you by because you've been spending all your time just "thinking"... Do some research, reach out to mentors, but ultimately the decision is yours. Justttt don't wait too long, cuz before you know it, allll of those private institutions that loaned you that money?? Yeah they're gonna want it all back.

7 Days: The Water Works

I'm thirsty...Very thirsty. And all I need to do to quench my thirst is... drink water. Ya'll thought this was gonna be about something else huh? lol. Sorry, not today. Today I really want to bring health to you all's attention. Water is seemingly the answer... To all life's transgressions. Not feeling well? Sluggish? Tired? Bump those sugary energy drinks; even the ones that promise no crash. DRINK WATER! I'm not here for promo. Not here to preach. I'm speaking the truth and this is serious business. My mom who is a nurse, used to tell me every day that I do not drink enough water and that I need to increase my intake. And she's right. There are a multitude of things that can change in your life via an increase in life's most natural element. Dry skin, brittle nails and breaking hair. I can almost guarantee that you will start to see some very big changes. So here is what Im going to do. For 7 days, I will be drinking NOTHING BUT WATER. For a week, I will replace all juices, teas and yes, even liquor with the fabulous H20. And in a weeks time, I believe that I will be able to measure the differences in my life. Of course i"ll have to make some additional changes. Just water isnt the cure for all things. A basic lifestyle change will promote a healthier mind, body and spirit. I charge you all to join me. One week, with one mission! Lets go!